Monday, May 05, 2008

Looking for Mary Jane

No, not that kind of Mary Jane. To be more specific, I should say we were looking for Mary Janes.

It's May, so that means about seven weeks of school are left. Clare's shoes, unfortunately, weren't in this school year for the long haul.

I'd seen it coming. The scuff marks had turned sections of Clare's black shoes into more of a grey-brown-black mess. The soles were worn. Seams were beginning to loosen and the velcro on the straps had worn pretty thin. I would polish them as best as possible so they'd look a little less embarrassing. Although they'd look okay in the morning after a shine, in the afternoon the same scrappy shoes would come home.

Then last Thursday it happened. Clare tore her shoe off and the velcro tore apart. The piece that's supposed to stick to the shoe wasn't stuck to the shoe anymore—it was stuck to the other side of the velcro.

I thought about stapling the velcro back where it should be, but that would have looked too trashy. I though about whether some gaff tape or duct tape might hold it together somehow. It's the universal remedy isn't it? And it definitely would have added some personality to the shoe. I wasn't sure duct tape was the right tool for the job though. And Clare's Catholic school probably woudn't have appreciated my inventiveness. I did try glue and it held well enough for Clare to wear the shoes on Friday. I obviously didn't use the right glue though, because the velcro tore right off again when she pulled the shoe off Friday afternoon.

So, we spent the weekend looking for Catholic school uniform black Mary Janes. There is an official uniform store about thirty miles away, but they're hours are short on the weekends (except at the beginning of the school year) and they wanted fifty bucks for the shoes. I thought we could do better.

Unfortunately, doing better wasn't easy. Finding black dress shoes when most stores are stocking sandals, sneakers and flip flops was a chore. And's what with the high heels on play shoes for girls who haven't even reached size one yet?!

Yesterday—after ordering a pair online that'll take a few days to get here—we finally found some acceptable shoes in a store and bought those too. (I'd say we found them in the last place we looked, but that's kind of a foolish saying—obviously it was the last place we looked because we stopped looking after we found them.)

So Clare is wearing September-new shoes to school today. And, when the online order comes in, she'll have two pairs unless we can return those. At least she'll already have shoes for next year. We just have to keep her feet from growing over the summer. Any ideas how we can do that?

7 comments:

Awesome Mom said...

Foot binding comes to mind. I feel your pain, when my boys were going through a foot growth spurt I swear I got them new shoes every six weeks. Thankfully it seems things have settled down a bit.

alissasanderson said...

I feel your pain...this past weekend I had to buy tennis shoes for Drew for school. His were absolutely falling apart, and weren't going to make it to the end of the school year. And I'm betting these won't last the summer, size-wise. *sigh*

Joeprah said...

Awesome stole my response...actually she commented first so I was just late. I would say just hold onto them in case you can use them at the beginning of next year since Clare had the same pair until this point in the year (8 1/2 months), odds are she may still fit in them for at least a short while...actually return them. :D

Kaz said...

Dude- you gotta use Zappos.com. They won't advertise it, but they ship overnight for free. Just choose normal shipping, and they ship it next day air in almost all cases..

Above Average Joe said...

The Champ's school pants are holding on by a thread. One more month, I keep telling myself.

Sam said...

If you got the online shoes from Zappos they will take returns. I can't remember if Piperlime does because I've never bought anything from them.

But if you can't return the second pair then at the end of summer just sell her shoes on Craigslist and then use that money to buy shoes in a bigger size.

The high heel shoes for little kids? It's popular in other cultures that are not white, catholic people.

Tamara said...

This reminds me of the story Bunny's New Shoes. Do you have that one??? We read that one over and over when the girls were little. I think it was Agent J who liked it the best. I always imagine that story taking place at Howards which I don't remember particularly enjoying myself. I think I have it easy -- my girls usually wear either sneakers or flip flops to school. Oh wait, that may be because I avoid shoe shopping like the plague. Ashes, ashes, you know...